Alright well I need to try and sleep soon, if I even can with all this going on to my two/three day old gun.
Here's the position the slide is jammed in when it did it from firing, and also a picture of me moving the hammer quite a ways towards the beavertail, and nothing changes, it's still ridiculously right.
The metal part behind the blow back unit does rub on the hammer and I see posts about people saying they file it down, but I'd have to file it down a decent amount, maybe a whole millimeter or even a tad more for it to not hit the hammer at all. I try and take a video of how much the hammer moves when this part touches it tomorrow when I can use my bench and light setup.
As you can see when the slide is jammed really tight like that the hammer isn't in that spot at all.