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mrjaybles123 November 11th, 2014 22:15

Lacking the courage to get out and play.
 
Hey guys so I have this physical problem that affects my coordination or my motor skills like running, etc. So basically I want to get out and play but Im worried that people will laugh at me because of my problem. What should I do!?

chaz November 11th, 2014 22:16

dont run, sneak?

666 November 11th, 2014 22:21

I personally haven't seen this happen, otherwise I'd say something unpleasant to a person who would do something like that. Can you perform physical tasks that are usually required for a normal airsoft/paintball game? I'm talking about regular skirmish type of a scenario. If you can than find a group of mature individuals who understand your condition and who believe that everyone is entitled to have fun.

mrjaybles123 November 11th, 2014 22:27

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Originally Posted by 666 (Post 1919496)
I personally haven't seen this happen, otherwise I'd say something unpleasant to a person who would do something like that. Can you perform physical tasks that are usually required for a normal airsoft/paintball game? I'm talking about regular skirmish type of a scenario. If you can than find a group of mature individuals who understand your condition and who believe that everyone is entitled to have fun.

Yes I have played games of paintball before with my older cousin and no one said anything...

ThunderCactus November 11th, 2014 22:33

I can't speak for your area, but in general we're pretty good about that sort of thing. We're not going to force you to do anything you don't want to do.
Just make your condition known, but don't feel bad, there's plenty of shit to trip on in the field to make us all look stupid lol
I've fell flat on my face running full speed with my 249 at least twice after getting my foot caught in barbed wire hidden under matted grass -_-

waylander November 11th, 2014 22:52

LOL, my first big skirmish game I was coming down a narrow really steep stairwell from a tower and my foot slipped about half way down. I fell down the rest of the stairs on my ass, lost everything in my dump pouch and my pistol came out of its holster. My tail bone hurt like hell for 2 weeks!

As stated most airsofters are pretty mature and a good bunch of guys. You're going to find most are going to encourage you, not make fun of you. In the end, even if someone decides to poke fun, ignore them and have fun, don't let a few jackasses stop you from having fun. I bet if anyone actually said anything they'd be called down for it by everyone else.

nstahl.19 November 11th, 2014 23:21

Lol damn bruh. I would have been very concerned about my gun and optic.

Ricochet November 11th, 2014 23:36

I biffed it running across flat cement and smashed by $2,000 gun all over the ground.

You have physical limitations the same as everyone else. If you can traverse a variety of terrain and shoot straight, without keeling over from a heart attack, you can play. Just do it at your own pace. If you're in a wheelchair, then outdoor airsoft may not be for you. But whatever your challenges are, it's up to you to push yourself comfortably, and any groups out there should be reasonably accommodating.

GR November 11th, 2014 23:44

As most previous guys said, as long as you can perform some of the required functions (aiming, holding the weapon, etc), most people are mature enough to accommodate and maybe even support you (that's one of the biggest things I like the sport - the community) . Just make sure you let the players/game organizers know before hand, to avoid harsh words being thrown around.

Also, as someone mentioned above, if someone were to make fun of you, I'm pretty sure the rest of guys/game organizers at the field would be looking down on them. In any case, just ignore, world has too many a**... (not good people) to worry about every single one of them. :)

L473ncy November 12th, 2014 00:04

There are old farts who smoke like it's going out of style (also "tactical mall ninjas" that get winded walking up a flight of stairs) I don't think you'll be at that much of a disadvantage but seriously the community is great but I can't speak for your area. Just be selective of which groups you play with and you'll have no problem. I'm not going to sugar coat it and tell you everything is just peachy when there are bad groups out there just avoid playing with them. Be safe in the safe zone and don't misfire in the safe zone if your coordination/motor skills are poor and you'll be fine.

Just wondering, it's not something like Cerebral Palsy is it? Personally I'm fine with it in day to day but it would be a bit weird if someone were to show up to a game with it, I'd honestly probably do a double take but other than that I'd try to be welcoming and make sure any new player has a good time.

Janus November 12th, 2014 00:17

If I recall correctly, I remember seeing a post about a guy who plays and he's stuck in a wheelchair. They made a chassis for it that mounted LMGS, shields and Grenade launchers and such and managed to make special rules for him that everyone agreed to.

Given that as an example I would expect you to fit in pretty much seamlessly and if anyone gives you a hard time I'll get together an ASC kickstarter to fly me wherever they live so I can kick their ignorant ass.

Airsoft is for everyone.

FOX_111 November 12th, 2014 00:36

Go with friends if you need support.

But I think people will look uppon you with a lot of respect, especially for having the guts to play and have fun even with your disability.

Ricochet November 12th, 2014 00:37

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Originally Posted by Janus (Post 1919521)
If I recall correctly, I remember seeing a post about a guy who plays and he's stuck in a wheelchair. They made a chassis for it that mounted LMGS, shields and Grenade launchers and such and managed to make special rules for him that everyone agreed to.

Given that as an example I would expect you to fit in pretty much seamlessly and if anyone gives you a hard time I'll get together an ASC kickstarter to fly me wherever they live so I can kick their ignorant ass.

Airsoft is for everyone.

That's why I used the word "may". The important thing is that you enjoy what you're doing.

Janus November 12th, 2014 02:01

http://blog.airsoft-squared.com/incr...n-airsoft-tank

Here it is. The ground he's on isn't swampy roughfuck anklekiller wooded stuff, but it's still fairly outdoorsy. Megaprops.

Ricochet November 12th, 2014 05:06

That's pretty impressive, good for him. I'm curious as to his chair's off road capabilities.

MultipleParadox November 12th, 2014 08:38

Go have fun and keep your head high.

At worst, some jerk might laugh at you, then you can still shoot retard and laugh at him.

At best, you might just become an inspiration for others in similar situations or people with low self-esteem

As said before, if you choose your game right, with a mature player base, you should encounter no issues. The most important is to play at your own pace. Don't try to imitate the others if you feel you can't, adapt your play style to your body. Pretty much everyone has to do this anyway

Good luck

hollywood... November 12th, 2014 11:45

everyone is usually too busy laughing at me - so you are good to go!

FirestormX November 12th, 2014 12:14

It's unlikely that anyone will laugh at you. As stated, it's a pretty mature community, where gear is expensive, and assholes don't get invited out much.

You sound capable of playing, so I think you should be fine if you come out!

What area are you in? I'm sure there'll be ASC members around you who'll bring you out to your first game, if you would like some support. If you're in the Greater Toronto Area, you're welcome to come out with me and my friends.

Aper November 12th, 2014 12:20

All I got to say is don't limit yourself because you might get scared atbeing rejected for whatever handicap you might have. Like previously mentionned, 98% of the airsoft community is mature and very friendly, regardless if you're black/asian/handicapped/from Quebec.

;)

nardac November 12th, 2014 12:47

If you're in the London area, I'd welcome you to come out to Nairn field. Just as the guys have said, let others know you will be playing with some limitations. There is always a role for everyone, maybe you won't be sprinting around the field, maybe stealth and ambush is your game. We have had players bring friends out who were still treated with respect, our field wouldn't stand for anything else. As stated by others, it's a pretty accepting group to join.

Kokanee November 12th, 2014 12:52

Try sniping, a lot less moving around quickly; might be more suited to you.

mrjaybles123 November 12th, 2014 15:38

Tanks guys for replying to this. This made me feel much better and alot less nervous :)

Enthusiast November 12th, 2014 15:54

I hope you will have fun.

waylander November 12th, 2014 15:56

It's always a bit nervous your first time out and I can understand how it would be even more so for you.

Don't stress too much about it, go have fun, find a role you can play even if it's "hold this trail" or "defend the base". At least you're out slinging plastic. As you get more used to it you can try more to the limit of your ability.

Last big game I played an older, heavier gentlemen carried a camp chair around with him. no one made fun of him for it

Red Dot November 12th, 2014 17:47

Play with friends, it's all good. Great hobby and helpful community. If you are comfortable and post where you are I'm sure others will come out from the forum and support you. I'm in the Toronto area and wouldn't mind company at some walk-on games over the winter. :)

HackD November 13th, 2014 14:54

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrjaybles123 (Post 1919493)
Hey guys so I have this physical problem that affects my coordination or my motor skills like running, etc. So basically I want to get out and play but Im worried that people will laugh at me because of my problem. What should I do!?

Absolutely do NOT be afraid to enter into this sport as a physically limited or disabled player!

You have everything to gain, and nothing to lose!

I speak from experience.

I entered into this as a method of physio rehab after going through problematic hip replacement procedures. I also have brittle bone issues (i break easy) along with a host of other disease related physical health issues.

I have played for 3 years now - when i am well enough to do so. Never have i encountered issues with players or organizers.

I do advise you to fully disclose your limitations during any briefing made - so others are aware of your medical fragilities and play accordingly when you are in the cross-hairs.

HackD November 13th, 2014 17:26

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Originally Posted by Ricochet (Post 1919515)
I biffed it running across flat cement and smashed by $2,000 gun all over the ground.

You have physical limitations the same as everyone else. If you can traverse a variety of terrain and shoot straight, without keeling over from a heart attack, you can play. Just do it at your own pace. If you're in a wheelchair, then outdoor airsoft may not be for you.

Regarding the wheelchair - check this Cat out.. http://blog.airsoft-squared.com/incr...n-airsoft-tank

Hitting the keywords airsoft and wheelchair brings up a surprising number of hits.

As for I.. at the end of the 2nd season, when i found out that the hips weren't getting any better post-op, and weren't going to get any better .. i had the conundrum of dealing with a seeming 12 year old mind, trapped inside what was rapidly turning into an 80 year old body. Either i had to give it up, concede defeat and take up a lame sport like golf as the doctor recommended, or i could use an assistive device to enable playing on... enter the Redneck Wheelchair, based upon a very cheaply obtained ATV found on Kijiji.

https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-2...OPNoNods-1.jpg

Shirley November 14th, 2014 07:43

I always hear this same situation. I train people, I'm a personal trainer.
Here's a thought.
People are afraid to go to the gym because of how they look and perform.
Same thing applies to you and airsoft.
The difference is you get off your ass and go to the gym. They can laugh all they want, you gotta start somewhere.

Look at how many people out there that want to play Airsoft but can't because of costs and age.
If you have the option, then do it. Airsoft is intense, you'll sweat off calories and fat like no tomorrow, even standing in one spot.


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